Freedom Distorted

Are you free??? Think about it, just for a moment. We work everyday,in a job that pays the bills. We lock ourselves in our car and then in our house. How free are we? We really live in the illusion of freedom. We got rights that are conditional to whomever has the power. You are not free! Wake up!! Your life is going away. All we are is slave to the system. Brake the chain and be free. Don't buy into the consumerism,most of the times you buy things you don't need. Just to have. You give up your life for technology,cars,gold,paper money. Does it make any sense?? Is this really the life that will make you happy?? Work till you are old so you then can pay the doctor for the sickness you created while working. Is this really living?? What about right now,did you take a moment experience it?? I think you will wake up and can wake up. I dream that you will pursue your dreams.

Truth Distorted

”Truth will set you free!” Or will it? I want somebody who is honest,faithful and truthful. One question I have for everybody. Are you truthful? Faithful? Honest? All the time? If you are I am guessing you must be hated and must be alone. Everybody lies, is human nature. We can't accept this fact, cause we like to keep our childhood innocence alive. Remember Santa Claus? Eastern bunny? Tooth Fairy? Jack Frost? Sandman? Boogie Man? This and many others have been the first lies we ever heard. Who tell us? Our parents!! the people we trust the most,that give us life! We spend our time looking for the truth from others instead of accepting there is no honesty or truth, just sugarcoated lies. People modify the way they say things not to hurt,to make someone feel good or just because a lie is more entertaining than the truth. Trust,honesty,truthfulness all lies just with some sugar on it.

Do you promise to say the whole truth so help you God!? They do this in court,now what happens if you don't believe in God? What happend to the division of state and religion? We'll seems like another lie to me. Truth is such a shady thing. Lawyers live there life distorting the truth.

Doctors say they know what you have here take this meds and then later you come back and they say I think you need this other med,but hey! what you expect from doctors? after all they call what they do practice.

You go to School teachers says the world is round and now the world is oval. Knowledge is always changing or at least accepted knowlege. The truth is such an illusive thing is scary if you think about it. Food we eat we are not sure what the hell we eat, and if we think about it,we probably would not eat.

Everyday we lie and Everyday we see lies everywhere! ”Age defiying cream”,sure thats sounds pretty honest. There is no such a thing!! You are getting old accept the life cycle! What is it with people they love lies and illusion about everything. But they want the ”truth”. What truth, Exactly?? Half truth?? That is the main accepted truth after all. And that tends to change depending on person to person.

There is a quote that says ”when the legend becomes fact print the legend. ” That's what people do in history happens all the time. History books are all full of lies and we eat it up. Hitler said it best “Make the lie big, make it simple, keep saying it, and eventually they will believe it” This has not change at all, politicians do it all the time. Scary to think of it,if you ask me folks.

Another quote from Hitler “It is always more difficult to fight against faith than against knowledge.” People have faith, over the goverment, religion. Goverment knows this so that why they mix it in for there advantage.  God bless you! In God we trust! God save the Queen! Do you promise to say the truth so help you God.  Is all this coincidence? I don't think so.

Hitler said “The victor will never be asked if he told the truth.” This is what happens all over in the world in jobs, sales, politcs,war and so on and so on.  Food for thought my friends. Next time somebody says to you I want the truth think about it do they want the truth?? Do they want a sugarcoated lie?? I know my life has change now and I wont see all with the same eyes. I will see all there is especially when people are saying half truth all the time. Acceptance of the imperfections of humans being will set you free, and that is the ”TRUTH”

Raising kids Distorted

I was raised the old school way when you talk out of line you felt it on your behind. I was no saint so I felt it,more than most. Now that I have a child don't want  that to happen to her. I want to talk to her and be able to let her express her inner self. I ask question for her to make her own decisions. After all we all do as we please,no matter what. Why should we think we are even able to control our child with pain? It only creates fearful beings. A child should be guided not modified like pavlov dog. This will create a more independent individual In my opinion. That's what we need them to be. Consious human being,able to see the big picture. Not a senseless goal oriented human. Show them to enjoy life simple things and honor other humans. No judgement of other people decisions. Don't show them to keep things for keeping them after all,material things stay behind when we die. Nobody will care about how much money you made we are all the same in death. Show your child to be in constant awe. Loving to explore and learn. Nowadays electronic devices has taken our child from reality. We have to get them back into reality,they need to get dirty,scratch,fall and all that we did. They need to see that playstation for us was the woods,not an electronic device that the only thing it does,is create zombies. T.V. Does the same if you are not careful. Use this tools carefully,they can be useful or they can be really detrimental for the childs development. Im no psychologist but I do use my common sense. If you talk to your child with secret and lies he will imitate you. If you don't stimulate his brain,he will never open his mind. If you are not affectionate he will underdevelop. Always keep In mind,just like you made bad and good decisions they will do the same. Controling a child creates a rebel instead of an ally. If there is something wrong that can kill them,you do have to get involved. But in the rest of the time,you can advice but dont try to enforce your will,is  there life,there will. You as a parent already had your chance only thing you can do is be there to share your experience and that is all.

Courtship distorted

People love the whole courtship,I call courtship the big lie. This is the moment where people behave on their best behavior, best clothes, trying to impress the person they are attracted to. Is all bullshit and I tell you more, it won't last more than 6 months before you start seeing the claws of reality tearing your illusion apart. Reaping the pink glasses and replacing it with darkness.
Taking the time to be honest would gain you more than using things to impress. That's why people say I didn't know who I married. He or she wasn't like this before. Break the cycle use truth,see what happens.

The cycle of life distorted

They say you are born ,you grow,get old and you die. But in between all that you are always prisoner of a room. When you are kid you are a prisoner of school in a mini desk looking at the chalkboard. When you grow you are a prisioner of an office in a desk looking into a monitor, when you are old you are prisoner of a hospital bed looking into T.V. . When you die you are again in a room a box till the end of time. You always looking into somewhere else and not inside us and around . Always focus in something else except our life. Enjoy your life focus on the present,don't let time pass without learning something new,having fun,experiencing something new.

Marriage Distorted

Is interesting how twisted marriage has become,it starts with a celebration of love. Finishes with a fight for money. Marriage no matter what Hollywood or any romance novel tells you is all about the money. Is a way for the goverment maintain some control over peoples money. Is very interesting if you ask me. All the promises made at the altar don't mean a thing. Nobody talks about love and sacrifice made. All is talk about is money and split the time with the kids. Next time you hear marriage think business proposal. Do not get blinded by the illusion.

Sex Distorted 2

Here goes my next post of Sex distorted. Alot of people judge other people sexual preference or sexual deviation. Judge how much and with whom as if this is going to get a price in the end for the most sexually repress judgmental. Nobody really should care about what other people do or do not do with their body. I say unless they are hurting another human,animal,child or themselves is ok,let them be. Even S&M has space in the exploration of sexual pleasure. Pain is very close to pleasure at times. But that is another subject for another post S&M distorted. Especially after all this hype about the books coming out.
Sex has so many branches to explore from spiritual to physical. You can become a sex yogi or yogina. You can become a sex athlete depends on your view on sex. Or you can embrace it all and not label yourself which is my preference. You are you and nothing else,nothing more. Labels just create separation and what we need is union in sex, just like yoga means union we need to have that union with ourselves and then with somebody else.

Millions of books are written on the subject all pretty much talk about the same and I will narrow those books into one sentence. Explore yourself and enjoy freely all the sexual pleasures Of life,with no hurry or fixed goal.
Here are questions to guide you:

Have you taken a moment to really touch and caress your partner or partners?
Do you talk about what was good or could be better next time after you are done? Sex is like a dance it does need practice and patience.
Are you selfish and have your orgasm as your primary goal?? Be artistic let it all flow don't stick with your own pleasure only.
Give attention to details of his or her breathing,body language even when they are quiet they don't stop talking to you. The subject of Sex is a complex and long one. All that it needs is your education on it and self edcuation is the best there is. Is not about doing it like a pornstar they are not the best example to follow,they are people who are paid to look good,to make faces, sometimes not even enjoying what they do.

Be the sexual being that you are meant to be use more than your 10%. Enjoy life simple pleasures.

Sex Distorted

Sex in the media,annoucements all over we are bombarded by Sex. Sex is our most primal self expression. For some reason with all the information on the subject and all the porn out there we still don't really have satisfying sex. We use 10 % Of our sexual capacity as much as we use of our brain. We are taught over and over by the media that is all about the big dick or big boobs,hard body and tight ass, how hard and long you can do it. An then there is the repress individuals talking about the virginity, sin and the wicked do this and that. Sex is way more than that superficial mombo jombo. Sex is a work of art if you ask me, a self expression of your most primal and inner self. Do not confuse sex with love, for just like marriage doesn't have to do with love,but actually about money. Sex has to do with pleasure and self exploration. Self exploration is the most you have to do to enjoy sex. If you don't, how you going to let go and enjoy? How would you guide the tourist when you don't know the roads of your own self pleasure. Sex, good sex starts with self knowledge. Then you can start with Techniques and props. I will continue on my next post.

Love Distorted

Everybody talks about love,falling in love and feeling love. I have to say Hollywood has distorted love at least what true love is all about. They are great at showing infatuation and illusion of love. They fall in love with total strangers instead of a friend. Have you tried knowing the person first?? You see love at first sight and butterfly on stomach normally happen because of alot of factors. Love is not the factor, Imagination is!! Love in the beginning is all about your imagination. What you make up in your head about that person and what they want you to see. So in reality you meet three people. The third person ,is the person they are really. That's the one that we are not so happy at times when it comes up. But in reality that is who they are. It's the annoying,rude at times,stinky, at times not very glamorous. Is the moment that you find out the other person is a human being that you get dissapointed and disillusion. But why are you mad? It was all in your head in the first place. Humans are flawed they will fail,just like you are flawed and make mistakes. You fall in love with your story in your head and you fall out of love with your story. Just like you decide to love your family or your children no matter what,you decide to love a person or not. Being in the good and the bad no matter what mistake or flaws. Unconditional love is the true love. Love is a decision you make,is easy to love someone when they are good to you is hard to love when they don't deserve it. Love and compassion to all living beings is the true way of living a blessed life. ”Love is my religion”.

Education Distorted

As we grow we get stuck in a room with other little kids that want to run and play. But are train like dogs to sit and be still. Given grades to let them know they are or not smart or well behave. Parents Go around proud Of the honor rolled kid as if that was something to be proud of. A kid that loses his creativity,passion and can vomit in a piece Of paper all that is being taught. Nowadays kids are more interested on seeing tv and playing video games than creating in their imagination a story. I learned this when i played with my daugther. She was surprise that i could make up a story and i was surprise to hear her say i don't know how to do that. Something that came so natural for me had become unatural to my kid. Is a real shame, I read to her every night that she is with me to spark her imagination. It seems to be helping. Education system is about turning kids into the same structure kid and parents are helping in the process brainwash by the media. Is something we have to look at and change my friends. The future doesn't look very promising when a kid builds a fort with a ipad instead of boxes. Let them go out,build,play with sticks, draw...spark the creativity. Creativity is educational all by itself.

Distorted Birth

Do you not think birth is distorted? We are brought to this earth in the most shocking way possible, in a cold room full of people with mask and latex gloves. After spending 9 months in a warm place. We get taken away and spank and shove things into our noses by strangers that we have no idea who they are. That don't really care about us, only care about making rent or buying the next in thing. Most people would say Im a pessimist. I call myself a realist. I do not buy into the distorted life and all the bullshit it brings. I do not believe that this is the way to treat a brand new human being, especially if its expected to be a peaceful one. But its all very distorted my friends. Back in the days kids where brought into this world by family member. What ever happen to all those "natural births" How come something that is so natural, has become so unnatural. You need a paper that says that you are capable of bringing somebody to life. Mother nature was mistaken I guess, forgot to give us that paper. So we believe we humans can do it better. Really what that paper should say is that I read this amount of articles and books and accomplish this amount of hours practicing unnatural ways of bringing kids to life. Natural birth has become unnatural. How distorted is that? Is all very confusing and scary if you ask me.