Sex Distorted 2

Here goes my next post of Sex distorted. Alot of people judge other people sexual preference or sexual deviation. Judge how much and with whom as if this is going to get a price in the end for the most sexually repress judgmental. Nobody really should care about what other people do or do not do with their body. I say unless they are hurting another human,animal,child or themselves is ok,let them be. Even S&M has space in the exploration of sexual pleasure. Pain is very close to pleasure at times. But that is another subject for another post S&M distorted. Especially after all this hype about the books coming out.
Sex has so many branches to explore from spiritual to physical. You can become a sex yogi or yogina. You can become a sex athlete depends on your view on sex. Or you can embrace it all and not label yourself which is my preference. You are you and nothing else,nothing more. Labels just create separation and what we need is union in sex, just like yoga means union we need to have that union with ourselves and then with somebody else.

Millions of books are written on the subject all pretty much talk about the same and I will narrow those books into one sentence. Explore yourself and enjoy freely all the sexual pleasures Of life,with no hurry or fixed goal.
Here are questions to guide you:

Have you taken a moment to really touch and caress your partner or partners?
Do you talk about what was good or could be better next time after you are done? Sex is like a dance it does need practice and patience.
Are you selfish and have your orgasm as your primary goal?? Be artistic let it all flow don't stick with your own pleasure only.
Give attention to details of his or her breathing,body language even when they are quiet they don't stop talking to you. The subject of Sex is a complex and long one. All that it needs is your education on it and self edcuation is the best there is. Is not about doing it like a pornstar they are not the best example to follow,they are people who are paid to look good,to make faces, sometimes not even enjoying what they do.

Be the sexual being that you are meant to be use more than your 10%. Enjoy life simple pleasures.