Love Distorted

Everybody talks about love,falling in love and feeling love. I have to say Hollywood has distorted love at least what true love is all about. They are great at showing infatuation and illusion of love. They fall in love with total strangers instead of a friend. Have you tried knowing the person first?? You see love at first sight and butterfly on stomach normally happen because of alot of factors. Love is not the factor, Imagination is!! Love in the beginning is all about your imagination. What you make up in your head about that person and what they want you to see. So in reality you meet three people. The third person ,is the person they are really. That's the one that we are not so happy at times when it comes up. But in reality that is who they are. It's the annoying,rude at times,stinky, at times not very glamorous. Is the moment that you find out the other person is a human being that you get dissapointed and disillusion. But why are you mad? It was all in your head in the first place. Humans are flawed they will fail,just like you are flawed and make mistakes. You fall in love with your story in your head and you fall out of love with your story. Just like you decide to love your family or your children no matter what,you decide to love a person or not. Being in the good and the bad no matter what mistake or flaws. Unconditional love is the true love. Love is a decision you make,is easy to love someone when they are good to you is hard to love when they don't deserve it. Love and compassion to all living beings is the true way of living a blessed life. ”Love is my religion”.